Monday, May 23, 2016

Questions + Answers



Dear Friends,

Happy Monday! I sound crazy when I say this, but I love them!

I wasn’t able to attend church yesterday, but my friend who taught the Relief Society lesson gave me the information and asked for my thoughts. So here they are:
In the talk “Yielding Ourselves to God,” by Sister Neill F. Marriott, she asks the question “How do we become yielded and still?” Take a second and ask yourself that.

One way I do this is to give myself extra time to get ready for bed. I turn on some soft Church music that I normally only listen to on Sundays and give myself lots of ponder time. Sometimes, I just sit there and think. My point is to slow down and be still. How do YOU do this?

The next question she asks is for during the Sacrament. After she repents of her wrongs from the previous week, she asks “Father, is there more?” This reminds me of “What lack I yet?” which is something we should ask Heavenly Father, often.

In 3 Nephi 9:20 it says “And ye shall offer for a sacrifice unto me a broken heart and a contrite spirit...” So ask yourself: What condition is my heart in today? “In order to have a healed and faithful heart, I must allow it to break before the Lord.” (Sister Marriott)

The second talk I read is called “The Joy of Living a Christ-Centered Life” by Elder Richard J. Maynes of the Presidency of the Seventy. He tells us of a potter that is teaching a group of youth at a conference. The potter begins by showing them the basics and then lets them try. Many become frustrated and say they aren’t talented enough. The potter then shows them that the clay needs to be exactly on the center of the wheel for it to work properly.

We need to center our lives on Christ in order to live happily. In 2 Nephi 5:27, the family of Lehi had been in the wilderness for about 30 years and they followed the Lord. “And it came to pass that we lived after the manner of happiness.”

Another example from the scriptures is from Alma 20:23. This is when king Lamoni and Ammon are speaking to king Lamoni’s father, asking him to release Ammon’s brothers from prison. The older king learned of his son’s new beliefs and tried to kill him, but Ammon defended him and almost killed him in turn. (Alma 20:23) “Now the king, fearing he should lose his life, said: If thou wilt spare me I will grant unto thee whatsoever thou wilt ask, even to half of the kingdom.”

Then later, when Ammon has his brothers freed from prison, Aaron (a brother of Ammon), is talking to the father of king Lamoni about the gospel. Notice what the king says about his kingdom: (Alma 22:15) “And it came to pass that after Aaron had expounded these things unto him, the king said: What shall I do that I may have this eternal life of which thou hast spoken? Yea, what shall I do that I may be born of God, having this wicked spirit rooted out of my breast, and receive his Spirit, that I may be filled with joy, that I may not be cast off at the last day? Behold, said he, I will give up all that I possess, yea, I will forsake my kingdom, that I may receive this great joy.”

I know that if we take time to be still and obey His commands with exactness, we will be happy.

Sincerely, Shelbi

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Friday, May 20, 2016

Our First Parents



Dear Peoples,

In the talk “Teaching the Doctrine of the Family,” (Ensign, March 2011) Sister Julie B. Beck (former President of the General Relief Society Presidency) says: “Without the family, there is no plan; there is no reason for mortal life.” I already knew this, but the way it was said struck me. In “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” it says “The first commandment that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife.”

Just in that sentence, I see four things that are very important:
1. They had potential for parenthood.
2. They had to be husband and wife – first!
3. It was a commandment to do these things.
4. It came from all the way back when Adam and Eve were alive...that MUST mean it is important, to have been established in the beginning.

President Ezra Taft Benson (1899–1994) said, “This order...of family government where a man and woman enter into a covenant with God — just as did Adam and Eve — to be sealed for eternity, to have posterity...is the only means by which we can one day see the face of God and live.” (Ezra Taft Benson, “What I Hope You Will Teach Your Children about the Temple,” Ensign, Aug. 1985, 6) (Also in Sister Beck’s talk, previously mentioned)

I know the only way back to Him, our loving Heavenly Father is through families, sealed for time and eternity.

Sincerely, Shelbi

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Friday, May 13, 2016

Listen.



Dear Lovelies,

This morning I studied the topic ‘Revelation’ from the Church manual “True to the Faith.” I went through a few of my study ideas trying to find something to do and then I decided to touch on yesterday’s post.

I wrote about how I viewed my life...if I am doing enough, or too much and what I need to change. What I didn’t mention was THAT was personal revelation. "Revelation is communication from God to His children." (True to the Faith, pg. 140) There were key words like feeling/felt, prayed and listened, and directed that help show what was going on.

I called it personal revelation because I can only receive it for ME. The Prophet can receive revelation for the entire Church, the Stake President for his stake, and the Bishop for his ward. Those people who are over organizations can receive inspiration for that specific group.

There are a handful of ways we receive revelation. One of these is more common and leaves a longer lasting impression. This is through the Holy Ghost, or the Spirit.

Some ways to help us be more prepared to receive inspiration from the Holy Ghost are:

-Pray for guidance.
-Be reverent.
-Be humble.
-Keep the commandments.
-Partake of the sacrament worthily.
- Study the scriptures every day.
-Take time to ponder.
-When seeking specific guidance, study the matter out in your mind.
-Patiently seek God’s will.

We need to learn to listen to Him though. There are many distractions in life. Some ways the Holy Ghost communicates with us are:

-He speaks to the mind and heart in a still, small voice. (D&C 8:2-3)
-He prompts us through our feelings.
-He brings us peace and is also known as the Comforter. (John 14:26)

I know as we are striving to keep God’s commandments and doing what is right, we can receive personal revelation that will change our lives. We just need to listen.

Sincerely, Shelbi

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